ww#53 :: committed?

1. for you, is sex hotter when it is forbidden? or are you the sort that is wracked with guilt and it is not enjoyable?

2. are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you, or do you need an emotional commitment from your partner?

3. do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it's more difficult to stay committed to your partner?

ww#52 :: pregnancy.

my friends are either pregnant or planning a pregnancy. thank God i'm done. this post's alternate title is "there's your threesome!" (from coupling)

1. is pregnancy sex a turn-on for you? why or why not?

2. if you've been pregnant, did your sex drive increase or decrease? if you're male, has your partner's drive changed when they're pregnant?

3. most doctors advise waiting six weeks before having intercourse (i barely lasted four with my second). did you take their advice?

WW #51--Things That Go Bump in the Dark

With permission of our gracious hostess, I'll be posing our WW questions this week.

LA recently had some blackouts/brownouts. There have always been urban legends about post-blackout birth rates. On that note....

1) Do you find blackouts scary, romantic, or something else?

2) If romantic, what did you do to take advantage of the situation (e.g., make dinner in candlelight)?

3) Have you ever used a blackout as a excuse/pickup line to get someone in the sack?

4) If so, did you go for the full blackout effect or did you light candles (or some other light source)?

ww#2008 edition!

welcome back to the wet wednesday. i've taken a few weeks off, and have come back refreshed and rested! happy new year!

today we are going to talk about may-november romances. my married neighbour norah has been camming with her son's friend. scandalous!

1. in the book cougar: a guide for older women dating younger men by valerie gibson, ms. gibson states that the typical cougar-prey age difference is six years. would you date - or have you ever dated - someone at least six years your junior?

2. what is the largest age difference between you and a paramour? who was older?

3. what would you say to your friend if he/she was carrying on with a friend of their child? is this ever acceptable to you? why or why not?

ww#49 :: been a long time since i...

1. what is the longest you have gone without sex involuntarily? as in, you wanted to, but you couldn't for whatever reason?

2. what was the longest time period you've had to wait for oral sex, and was it worth the wait? why or why not?

3. what was the longest time period between when you were supposed to have sex (for instance, you'd made a date for it), and when you actually had it? did the wait make it a better experience?

ww#48 :: friends.

1. are you currently in, or have you ever had, a FWB (friends with benefits) relationship?

2. have you ever had sexual contact with a friend, and then later regretted it?

3. do you have a friend or acquaintance, or perhaps someone you are friend with at work/the gym, that you would consider having a sexual relationship with? why or why not?

ww #47: helping yourself to another piece

lola's on the road for turkey day, so i'm jumping in. for those of you traveling overnight or having overnight guests for this weekend:

1) what are you and your partner's sex rules when you are staying at a friend's or relatives' house? verboten? only if the kids (if applicable) are in another room? ok, if you promise to be quiet? oh, baby, that pumpkin pie really gets me going!?

2) what are your sex rules when others are staying at your house?

3) ever get caught (or catch someone else) doing the holiday nookie?

Have a great, and safe, long weekend.